What said and done only useful when helping us to know and treat ADHD, Autism, Depression, and Suicide, Homicide, Gunfire, ...
Simply Using smartwatch we can know the state of mind, the state of mind, the rhythm of feeling: love, hatred, stress or anxiety. To know the world are HYSTERICALLY STRESSED OR NOT?
New view about autism, depression, ADHD.
Thank you, mom and dad, friends, sorry for the pain and hurt that you are experiencing.
One thing I know is your child is under stress, extreme stress by themselves or adults. We need to understand them.
Stress season of US is highest in January: with the soaring of death, and cardiovascular stroke. Maybe they are too stress because enjoying time passed, boring stressful work begin and stressful paying credit cards for the amount that overspend before Holiday, New Year'Eve, and black Fridays. School also make American stress. The number of death reduced substantially during summer vacation, and the number of injury for kids is increased, maybe the kids play more freely than other time.
One thing to check about the effect of schooling in society: look at the diagram of death rate between America and Europe with Australia and New Zealand. The pattern is so obviously opposite according to the different school schedule and summer vacation.
Best of all
Embrace him with love, connection, free stress environment, and chances of joy, happiness to build his abilities. Stress dominates him that he is out of control. Think of meditation.
All of these will soothe the overactive or stressed mind. Think of the moment you are under extreme stress, you may react like him, you may hurt other unconsciously.
A stress moment can kill a student.
A stress moment can kill a banker
A stress moment can kill a CEO
A stress moment can kill a politician
They are strong but the severe stress moment can have affected all their life. It embeds in their brain, cell, an organ that we do not consciously know but the subconscious mind know that moment: smell, sound, noise, invisible signal then create the conditioned responses to it.
You see
Soldiers in ended 1950 are still under stress with any mild unwanted triggers.
"No disabilities, no mental illness, no murderer are born. Only healthy babies, all doctors, physicians and medical test said that. Only angel babies are born, all parents, adults said that"
But
They live in stress, eat in fear, sleep in anxiety, playing in the boring safe side, wear luxury clothes in discontentment, study with pressure, and sexing with contempt. They never find the real joy, happiness.
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid"
-Kelly Clarkson: because of you-
One in all
Children are family
Family is nation
Nation is the world"
- Serotonin comes when you get close contact: skin to skin, kiss, hugs, embracing, intimating acts. Or the feeling of belonging and significance. Dogs can make the owner have these feelings. When doing good, kind, and helping others. An act of goodness: the doer, the receiver, and the watcher will have the feeling caused by this.
Dopamine and Serotonin is the chemical that all psychic medication used to increase in patients. All medications for depression aim at increasing these.
Lastly, the chemical is oxytocin: sex, love, skin contact, and giving birth are high in this.
Scientists find that oxytocin may help autistic mice. they will do more research in future to apply to the autistic child. They do not know that these happy chemicals are secreted when they treat well with each other with love, close contact, connection, supporting and trusting.
Using smartwatches to know the emotion, thinking of people is the good suggestion by observing physical figures: heartbeat, blood pressure during the days, events, years and important Missions.
When people can sense the changes in the body with these chemical- it called Gut Feelings: tighten the muscle, throbbing in head muscle, sweating or chill. It is there even we consciously know it or not as the conditioned response to the environment
How about the fragile kid who is forming the immature brain in stress. Best of all is calm stress down by
1. Unconditional love:
2. Connection: people, animal, nature, parents;
3. Unstressed environment: happy, warm, cheering; then make them have
4. Ability to deal with facts of life - the fact that some people may think is the big threat, problems, or danger.
Simple breathing meditation helps children better than medication in ADHD and Autism. Father said: “the day autistic child happy he will less overreact than the stressful day.”
Realy good with meditation. It calms the mind and brings the mind to the body. Live in mindfulness by simple breath. Daniel Goleman the author of Emotional intelligence has told the story of applying simple breathing meditation in elementary school in chaos areas. It works.
When you nervous, anxiety, people usually advise you to calm down and breath slowly, deeply.
This kind of breath brings the mind of kid back to present. The kid does not have to live with the fear or stress of the past or future. When the mind at ease with the body, the good chemical flush the brain and repair the defect in the brain. Zen masters are the mind master.
Cortisone in stress is to prepare the energy in glucose, high energy ready in the body for fight and flight, it reduces the function of immune system and all other organs. Chronic stress may exhaust the body and impair the organ.
Connect all effects, and the side effect of cortisone, epinephrine, and norepinephrine are described well in pharmacology books, so list them all down, it is the symptoms, severe outcomes of stressed people.
In psychology they overreact, want to be alone, and have abnormal behaviors: it is the instinct of the pain in the stressful environment in the hope of find out safety for the self.
By Observing, parents can know the early symptoms or pattern of stress, unsafety in children since they are one week, one month or two-month-old or three months old babies to prevent earlier Autism, ADHD, Depression, Stomach problem and autoimmune diseases: diabetes, junior arthritis.
People are hysterical anxiety or they overreact. They are anxious as a mother anxious when a stranger comes to her home, only her baby alone. She has to go the party for business, she will fear, overreact and does not want to eat at all. Even with needed normal activities like eating, vaccination can make them hysterical. Hysterical parents, hysterical men can destroy the whole society. Putting a cage of snake in the corner of your child's bed, you may sleep in stress, fear, screaming or overreact. Even you know that the cage is 100% safe.
The family is the only place where the enemies sleep shares the same bed, they may sleep, eat, and enjoy stress. The fact is all will sleep with the stress hormone very tired, terrible sleep: because they do not find trust or safety from the partner. It is devastating to both wife and husband. But the baby bears it all: an infant with fragile, sensible brain. The immature brain is forming under stress.
UNFORTUNATELY, THE LEVEL OF STRESS IN THE MIND IS UNLIMITED, BUT THE PREPARE OF THE PHYSICAL BODY IS LIMITED. Autoimmune started ignorantly but incredible collectively.
When all are high, the organ may send the feedback signal to the brain to stop secreting hormones. The brain still wants to raise the level of preparation of the body to find safety in fight and flight, as the nation raises money to build weapon and army. The lower organs start to send the feedback to calm the mind and effects down to regulate blood pressure, blood glucose and remain Biological homeostasis. The hysterical mind does not want that, Immune system obeys the order of brain to attack the normal cells. Autoimmune diseases started, wars started, stress started.
Van D. Dao.(October 2017). Awaken You Wonderful We. KDP Amazon.
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